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How to stop the Pain of wishing people were different

In what ways do you wish that people were different? Think about the people close to you as well as coworkers, neighbours, and drivers on the highway. It’s normal to wish that others were different, just as it’s normal to wish that you, yourself, were different (say, richer or wiser). Problems come when we tip into fault-finding, badgering, contempt, or any other kind of struggle.